Divorce is hard for parents, especially when deciding who gets the kids during Christmas. In Indiana, both parents agree to a parenting plan during the divorce. Alternatively, if they cannot agree, ask the court to decide for them. Knowing how these plans work can help you handle this part of your divorce better.
What is a parenting plan?
A parenting plan is a document that shows how you and your ex will share duties and time with your kids. It lists daily schedules, holidays, vacations and other special occasions. The plan aims to put the child’s needs first and ensure that both parents have a good relationship with their kids.
Common holiday plans
For Christmas, think about these typical parenting plans:
- Switching holidays: Parents take turns each year for Christmas.
- Split holidays: Kids spend part of Christmas Eve with one parent and part of Christmas Day with the other.
- Set holidays: One parent always has Christmas, while the other gets another holiday, such as Thanksgiving.
- Shared holidays: Both parents spend the holiday with the kids.
These flexible plans can fit your family’s unique needs.
Modifying the parenting plan
If things change or the first plan does not work, you can ask the court to change the parenting plan. This ensures that the plans still help the child. Significant changes in work schedules, moving or changes in the child’s needs can all be good reasons to ask for modifications.
Legal things to consider
Indiana courts put the child’s needs first when deciding custody and parenting time. The court will choose if you and your ex cannot agree on a holiday plan. Write down any deals and follow the court’s advice to avoid problems and have a smooth holiday for your kids.
What is best for your child
Dealing with holiday custody is hard for parents, but knowing your options and the law in Indiana can help you make good choices. Whether you switch, split or share holidays, put your kids first and talk openly with your ex. Consider consulting a lawyer if you need help making or changing a parenting plan.
Remember, the goal is to make holidays happy for your kids even though your family has changed. You can make the holidays fun for everyone with good planning and teamwork.